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Grandparents Day

Grandparents Day

Today, September 11th is a special day.
Because it’s Grandparents Day.

No, you are correct, it is not Grandparents Day.

But, if you are a follower of my daughter Alexa’s social media, as I am of course, you would think that today is Grandparents Day.
Because in case you didn’t know, I am the proud father of the President of the Partin Elementary School PTA.

And as an influencer, Alexa is showing some promise.

In addition to successfully squeezing a couple of dollars in donations out of me, she had me believing today was Grandparents Day.

And since I am a grandparent, which means I am old and a little slow on the uptake, I didn’t immediately process the fact that this was Grandparent’s Day for the school and the kids to celebrate, and not the actual Grandparents Day.

No, I didn’t realize that until I Googled it.

The fact is I should have known that because I wrote about it just three years ago in Ethan’s Guernica.

But since I am old, and a little slower lately, I had to look it up again.
So, in case you want to know, Grandparents Day is always the first Sunday after Labor Day.
This year, that is September 13th. I will save you other old folks the hassle of figuring that out.

And Google even confirmed that, “Yes, many schools still celebrate Grandparents Day” and “Events vary by school. Some align with National Grandparents Day in September, while others hold their events in the spring.”

And the official flower of Grandparents Day is the Forget-Me-Not.

But then, I learned that on this past July 26th, World Day for Grandparents and the Elderly was celebrated.

Wait, it’s on September 11th, it’s on September 13th, it’s on July 26th, it can be in September aligned with National Grandparents Day, or…it could be in the spring?

It’s starting to sound suspiciously like National Daughters Day, which I determined once could be any day, or maybe every day of the year.

The World Day for Grandparents and the Elderly, it turns out, is a celebration, which coincides with the Feast of Saints Joachim and Anne, who were the grandparents of Jesus.

Jesus’ grandparents, I didn’t know that either.

And Pope Leo XIV chose a verse from Isaiah as its theme.
The theme of this year’s celebration was, “I will never forget you,” from Isaiah 49:15.

I like that, “I will never forget you.”

I heard an interview recently where the speaker quoted the Roman philosopher Cicero, “Memory is the treasury and guardian of all things.”

I liked that too.

We must treasure and guard our memories.

My mom often speaks of her relationship with her grandmother Flora. I have written about Flora before. The Brooklyn Dodgers, the Bronx Zoo and riding on an elephant, the way they would share and enjoy cucumbers and onions together, and how she would slice the cucumbers really thin.

I have nice memories of my grandparents too.

My grandfather Carl winning the blue ribbon for his portrait of John F. Kennedy at the art show at the Church of the Presidents in Long Branch N.J. in the late 60s, after my friend Matt and I may have stuffed the ballot box just a little. But he was happy, and that was important.

My grandmother Eleanora taking us kids to the beach at North Long Branch in the ’57 Chevy or the ’53 Pontiac. And the time she took us to Bahrs Landing in Atlantic Highlands when my parents were attending the Fireman’s Convention in Atlantic City and let us order whatever we wanted. I ordered a lobster and was mortified when the waiter made me wear a bib. C’mon, I was six, you don’t wear bibs when you are six.

And my Norwegian grandma Sofie pointing out my father’s new jacket when she couldn’t pronounce her “J’s” properly and always replaced it with a “Y”: “Carl, you got a new yacket, Carl.”

Yesterday I got this reminder through my text messages from Seven Eleven:
“Fuel up and fill up tomorrow! Swing by to redeem your 50 cents OFF/gal. Find a store…”

You see Seven Eleven has a promotion going if you sign up for their rewards program, that on the seventh and the eleventh of September and October, you can fill up your tank and get 50 cents off a gallon.

Pretty good deal, I filled up Kim’s car on the 7th.

I have been waiting all week for September 11th to fill up my truck.

So today I got up, put on what I felt was an appropriate tee shirt, went and filled up my tank at the Seven Eleven, ran a couple of errands, and then came home and finished this story.

Because you know, this story was never about grandparents or saving fifty cents on a gallon of gas.

But it is about Forget-Me-Nots and not forgetting.

And it is about that quote from Isaiah,” I will never forget you.”

Because today, September 11th, if you are an American and older than 35 years old, you probably remember exactly what you were doing twenty-five years ago.

And what they did.

And we can never forget that.

Or them.

“The life of the dead is placed on the memories of the living. The love you gave in life keeps people alive beyond their time. Anyone who was given love will always live on in another’s heart.”
― Marcus Tullius Cicero

My Appropriate Tee shirt
Reminders (Revisited)

Reminders (Revisited)

“IT WAS A BEAUTIFUL SEPTEMBER MORNING WITH A BLUE SKY…JUST A NORMAL DAY.”

Joy Knepp, Teacher, Shanksville –Stoneycreek School from the display at the Flight 93 Memorial Visitor Center

On an early New England morning in 1775, on the common green in Lexington Massachusetts, a small group of patriots prepared to square off against a large invading British force of about 700 troops. Moments later a shot was fired, and the first battle of the war to establish our nation’s freedom had begun.

Two hundred and twenty-six years later, on “a beautiful September morning with a blue sky…just a normal day” over the green mountains and hills of western Pennsylvania, another small group of brave patriots waged the first battle of a new war to protect those freedoms fought so hard for many years ago.

“…a beautiful September morning with a blue sky…”

Much like today I thought,  as I left the Flight 93 Visitor Center and began the walk down the tree lined path to the impact site below.   Though the morning was cool, the now mid to late afternoon sun caused me to remove my Harley Davidson of Somerset PA sweatshirt and tie it around my waist.  Kim did the same with her Steelers sweatshirt.  The occasional large dark cloud loomed almost symbolically right over the Flight 93 Memorial Visitor Center, so low it looked like you could almost reach up and touch it.  I guess something in the sky had to be there to remind us of the darkness of that day, joining the reminders on the grounds around me.  Though it was a beautiful day, this day, September 11th would never again be just a normal one.

 

Needing to decompress a little, Kim and I decided to make a trip up to see the family on the farm in Markleton, Pennsylvania in Somerset County. It was a weekend of reminders.

By early Saturday morning we were in Western Pennsylvania. I have been to Somerset County many times over the last almost 20 years and thought I was fairly well versed in the farm community life and history.  I got my eyes opened on Saturday by attending the New Centerville Volunteer Fire Company Farmer’s and Threshermens Jubilee.  Another reminder for me, this time of the hard work and sacrifice it took our forefathers to build and feed this great country of ours.

Sunday was church at the Geiger Church of the Brethren. The Sunday school message that morning was about death; how do we prepare? Are we ready?  What in our lives can complicate that preparation? And another reminder…we don’t always get the opportunity to prepare.

After church we had lunch with Kim’s parents at the Eat’n Park Restaurant in Somerset and decided we would just jump on the Pennsylvania Turnpike to go home. As I was waiting to leave, the manager at the Eat’n Park asked if I had come from the Flight 93 Memorial.  I explained we were here visiting family. The restaurant is next to the Harley-Davidson of Somerset motorcycle shop.  I told her about the photo my sister had sent me a few weeks earlier of that same spot as she and my brother-in-law participated in the 2016 America’s 9/11 Motorcycle Ride.

“Oh yeah” she said, “the motorcycles.”

She then expressed her disappointment that this year’s ride was to be the last.

“They donated an ambulance you know.”

Now in the truck ready to go home, the idea of visiting the Flight 93 Memorial on this day in particular seemed like the appropriate thing to do. I had never been there.  We were directed to park in an overflow parking lot since the visitors were many and walked the paths up to the Memorial Visitor Center.  All around the grounds, you could see what remained of the ceremonies that took place that morning or the evening before; the wreaths, the tents, the temporary bleachers, and stacks of chairs.

We waited in line for almost an hour to enter the Visitor Center. Once inside it didn’t take long to be transported back to that day with a rush of emotion.  I lifted the “phone” receiver and listened to their voices, those final calls and goodbyes; I viewed their names and faces on the wall and read the stories as the video of the World Trade Center attacks played over and over.  Everyone was quiet and solemn.

We walked down to the site of the impact. The large hemlock gate to the path where the boulder marks the impact site was open today. Only open once a year on this day according to the Park Ranger stationed at the gate.

We stood at The Wall of Names where fresh wreaths, flowers, and notes lay at the base of each stone panel honoring those who perished.

“Thank you for your sacrifice, God Bless You” read one note.

“Your sacrifice saved hundreds, Thank You!” read another.

I read the names again. The names of those patriots, who maybe with make-shift weapons of boiling water, a fire extinguisher, and who knows what else; made the ultimate sacrifice in what was the first battle of the new war threatening our freedoms.

They left their homes and their loved ones and boarded a jet not knowing how complicated their lives would be in a short while. How complicated their deaths would be.  They soon knew they were going to die; they had no time to prepare.

But they acted.

And they acted on our behalf.

And I was reminded once more.

And I will remember.

We should all remember.

 

“Are you guys ready? Let’s roll.” (Flight 93 passenger and patriot Todd Beamer)

Items left for flight attendant Sandy Bradshaw at the Wall of Names